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<channel><title><![CDATA[FOLKLORE AND FERN - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 12 Aug 2023 06:01:04 -0600</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Your Intuition in Action]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/your-intuition-in-action]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/your-intuition-in-action#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 06 Sep 2022 19:34:38 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/your-intuition-in-action</guid><description><![CDATA[       Something is stirring within.Maybe you are feeling restless, scattered, unfocused?Maybe you are feeling the strange pull of time as we are suddenly sucked toward the last few months of this year.Maybe time feels like it is always slipping away from you in a never ending slide.Maybe you have been too busy to notice, after all ...haircuts, oil changes, work and school supplies have been the priority.Or&nbsp;have you begun to notice the subtle shift in light each day or the leaves beginning  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/now-is-the-time-to-listen-within-tend-our-inner-garden-mindfully-until-new-flowers-new-blessings-can-blossom-hermann-hesse_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font size="5">Something is stirring within.</font><br /><br />Maybe you are feeling restless, scattered, unfocused?<br /><br />Maybe you are feeling the strange pull of time as we are suddenly sucked toward the last few months of this year.<br /><br />Maybe time feels like it is always slipping away from you in a never ending slide.<br /><br />Maybe you have been too busy to notice, after all ...<br /><br />haircuts, oil changes, work and school supplies have been the priority.<br /><br />Or&nbsp;<br /><br />have you begun to notice the subtle shift in light each day or the leaves beginning to change on the trees.<br /><br />perhaps you have started to get in bed earlier, felt the desire to make soup and turn inward?<br /><br />maybe you have started to feel like it is time to slow down, shift gears and watch more sunsets?<br /><br />&nbsp;<br />It might not be an either/or situation. In fact, life rarely is.<br /><br />But there is a remedy for all that late night scrolling, discontent and uncertainty.<br /><br />There is a cure for your disconnection, distraction, unease and fear.<br /></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/colorado_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">It is time to tend our inner gardens.&nbsp;<br /><br />Your own inner landscape and wisdom is profound. &nbsp;<br /><br />YOU are the expert on you.&nbsp;<br /><br />I know it can be hard to get to that place within, where you can trust yourself and feel deeply connected to your intuition.&nbsp;<br /><br />I know that life can feel so loud and busy, that it may feel physically uncomfortable to BE with yourself and your inner inquiry or knowing.<br /><br />It makes sense, the world is fast and loud and confusing and there are things on the list of To Do's that never seem to get done.<br /><br />It's OK. It is OK. You are ok, as is. Right now.&nbsp; <br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/flatirons_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">We are all doing our best right now.<br /><br />What I am finding is that the more I clear things out of my space and my life that are draining my energy, the easier it is to tune into those quiet whispers, within.<br /><br />As much as I want someone to do it for me....and boy do I!<br /><br />I know that the places I can get to, when I do the deep work of excavation are all the more powerful.<br /><br />I know this too, we can't do it alone. We need support and connection.<br />Someone to hold the space for our learning.<br />Someone to guide us to the places we need to look at most.<br /><br />We need a witness, someone to reflect and someone to be our cheerleader.<br /><br />Seek these souls out. Make a commitment to yourself and the ever unfolding beauty of your future self.<br /><br />For now, and until then, perhaps put some attention to the energy leaks in your life and consider ways to remedy them.&nbsp;<br /><br />Maybe go to bed early or watch a sunset.<br /><br />Ask your body what it knows.<br /><br />Listen.<br /><br />This is your intuition in action.<br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is Intuition Important]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/is-intuition-important]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/is-intuition-important#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 20 Aug 2022 14:45:45 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/is-intuition-important</guid><description><![CDATA[       We are all born with intuition.Over time our access to that innate skill starts to fade.We are taught more "practical and logical" life skills that favor reasoning and thought.The tangible and seen are favored over the unknowable and mysterious.The interesting thing is that even with all of our training to the contrary, our inner being still retains the knowing that comes from intuition.The following are all intuition in action:Gut feelingsFeeling drawn to something or someone Getting goo [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/intuition-quote_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong>We are all born with intuition.</strong><span>Over time our access to that innate skill starts to fade.<br /><br />We are taught more "practical and logical" life skills that favor reasoning and thought.<br /><br /><strong>The tangible and seen are favored over the unknowable and mysterious.</strong><br /><br />The interesting thing is that even with all of our training to the contrary, our inner being still retains the knowing that comes from intuition.<br /><br /><strong>The following are all intuition in action:</strong></span><ul><li><span>Gut feelings</span></li><li><span>Feeling drawn to something or someone </span></li><li><span>Getting good/bad vibes from a place</span></li><li><span>Going towards or away from things just because you have a hunch</span></li><li><span>Things&nbsp; that "just make sense" without an explanation...</span></li></ul><br /><span>If you are here reading this, it is most likely that you have more than a passing relationship with your intuition.</span><br /></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span>~You may already be a sensitive, empathic, intuitive, and connected person.<br /><br />~You may already use intuition to make decisions and to enhance your experience of life but maybe there are times when you doubt it or second guess it.<br /><br />~There may even be times when you don't feel clear or get conflicting messages.</span><br />&nbsp;<ul><li><span>Did you know that your intuition is actually like a muscle that can be developed and strengthened?</span></li></ul> &nbsp;<ul><li><span>Are you looking for ways to feel more connected to your intuition?</span></li></ul> &nbsp;<ul><li><span>Do you have a hard time making big decisions?</span></li></ul> &nbsp;<ul><li><span>Have you been looking for ways to connect more with your intuition beyond meditation alone?</span></li></ul> <strong><span> Intuition is a skill that can be built step by step.<br /><br />Full access to your intuition can be restored.<br /><br />Your life can be full of synchronicity, magic and deep inner listening.<br /><br />Having access to your intuition is your birthright.</span></strong><br /><br /><span>As the planet gets more chaotic, confusing and loud it will be more and more important to be able to listen to that deep inner knowing that is your intuition in order to navigate more skillfully what lies ahead.</span><br />&nbsp; <br /><span>I am wondering what your relationship to your intuition has been?<br /><br />Is it something that you would like to connect to more in your life?<br /><br />What kinds of things get in the way?</span><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Making Change Can Be Hard]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/april-15th-2022]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/april-15th-2022#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 15 Apr 2022 06:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/april-15th-2022</guid><description><![CDATA[       It can be frustrating to feel like you can&rsquo;t move forward or make changes in life because you feel so stuck, stagnant or blocked.Figuring out what to make for dinner or how to make time for a haircut, is hard enough, let alone making bigger life changes, that would ultimately bring you joy.Have you ever started working on a new resume but end up bingeing on Netflix instead?Are you so busy being taking care of others that you have no energy left for yourself?Maybe you&nbsp;spend all  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/truth_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span>It can be frustrating to feel like you can&rsquo;t move forward or make changes in life because you feel so stuck, stagnant or blocked.</span></span><br /><span><span><strong>Figuring out what to make for dinner</strong> or how to make time for a haircut, is hard enough, let alone making bigger life changes, that would ultimately bring you joy.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><br /><span></span><ul><li><span><span>Have you ever <strong>started working on a new resume but end up bingeing on Netflix instead?</strong></span></span></li></ul><br /><br /><span></span><ul><li><span><span>Are you <strong>so busy being taking care of others</strong> that you have no energy left for yourself?</span></span></li></ul><br /><br /><span></span><ul><li><span><span>Maybe you<strong>&nbsp;spend all your free time</strong></span><span>&nbsp;researching something new but <strong>never use that information for anything productive.</strong></span></span></li></ul><br /><br /><span></span><span><span>It&rsquo;s important to know that this may be more about what is happening <strong>inside you </strong>and less about external factors.</span></span><br /></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span><strong>Being human can be hard</strong> and we all have experienced difficulties, traumas or challenges. This can be very dysregulating to your nervous system.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><br /><span></span><span><strong><span>This may be the reason you feel like you never get anywhere despite your best efforts.</span></strong></span><br /><span></span><br /><br /><span></span><span><span>I remember, very well, the day I realized that my overwhelm and tiredness were in fact the trauma response &ldquo;freeze.&rdquo; &nbsp;</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><br /><span></span><span><span>It was as if a lightbulb went off inside me and everything changed. Now I had the language to understand what was truly at the heart of my overwhelm. Being clear about this, naming it, helped to get me moving again.</span></span><br /><span></span><br /><span><span><strong>Trauma responses might look like:</strong></span></span><br /><span></span><ul><li><span><span><strong>Freeze</strong>&hellip;overwhelm, tiredness, avoidance.</span></span></li><li><span><span><strong>Fight</strong>&hellip;over researching, never sitting still, doing or giving all the time.</span></span></li><li><span><span><strong>Flight</strong>&hellip;avoidance, bingeing netflix, making too many plans.</span></span></li><li><span><span><strong>Faun</strong>&hellip;putting others first, people pleasing, abandoning your own needs.</span></span></li></ul><span><span><strong>Can you relate to any of the above?</strong></span></span><br /></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><ul><li><span><span>When we look at things through this lens we can see that <strong>avoiding doing things, for example, can be a symptom that may mean&nbsp;you are in a trauma response or that your nervous system is dysregulated.</strong></span></span></li></ul><br /><br /><span></span><ul><li><span><span>On the surface, general feelings of <strong>being stuck or not knowing what to do,&nbsp;</strong></span></span><strong><span><span>can be the first signs that something inside us needs care.</span></span></strong></li></ul><br /><br /><span></span><ul><li><span><span><strong>Sometimes you need help to translate the messages your energy body is giving you, in order to heal.</strong></span></span><span><span></span></span><br /></li></ul><br /><ul><li><font size="4">What are some things you can do today to begin to shift your awareness?</font><br /></li></ul><br /><strong><span><span>Once you know what is holding you back, tying up your energy or keeping you from moving forward you can begin to address the issue and move through the blockages.<br /><br />By clearing what's in your way you can move confidently toward your dreams and goals.</span></span></strong><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Are you feeling the Shift in Energies?]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/are-you-feeling-the-shift-in-energies]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/are-you-feeling-the-shift-in-energies#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sun, 20 Mar 2022 17:42:31 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/are-you-feeling-the-shift-in-energies</guid><description><![CDATA[       Our bodies are meant to feel the shifts and changes in the seasons and in the light.&nbsp;&#8203;As we move from one season to the next, we have an opportunity to pause, go within and notice what is living within us.&nbsp;      Who are we now and who do we want to be?What wishes or manifestations are we working on?Are there life goals that need revisiting?&nbsp;Notice what would feel supportive for you to do within this portal of time and take a moment to do that thing.Suggestions:Read a  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/spring_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><font size="5">Our bodies are meant to feel the shifts and changes in the seasons and in the light.&nbsp;<br />&#8203;</font></span><br /><strong style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">As we move from one season to the next</strong><span style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">, we have an opportunity to pause, go within and notice what is living within us.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><br /></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">Who are we now and who do we want to be?<br /><br />What wishes or manifestations are we working on?<br /><br />Are there life goals that need revisiting?&nbsp;</strong><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">Notice what would feel supportive for you to do within this portal of time and take a moment to do that thing.</span><br /><br /><strong style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">Suggestions:</strong><ul style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)"><li>Read a poem</li><li>Write in your journal</li><li>Renew your five year plan</li><li>Clean out your closet</li><li>Daydream</li><li>Take a nap</li><br /></ul></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">Here is one of my favorite poems from Irish mystic and philosopher, John O'Donahue</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">May his words weave a blessing through you this season!<br /></span><br /><span><strong>Beannacht / Blessing</strong><br /><br /></span>On the day when<br />the weight deadens<br />on your shoulders<br />and you stumble,<br />may the clay dance<br />to balance you.<br /><br />And when your eyes<br />freeze behind<br />the grey window<br />and the ghost of loss<br />gets into you,<br />may a flock of colours,<br />indigo, red, green<br />and azure blue,<br />come to awaken in you<br />a meadow of delight.<br /><br />When the canvas frays<br />in the currach of thought<br />and a stain of ocean<br />blackens beneath you,<br />may there come across the waters<br />a path of yellow moonlight<br />to bring you safely home.<br /><br />May the nourishment of the earth be yours,<br />may the clarity of light be yours,<br />may the fluency of the ocean be yours,<br />may the protection of the ancestors be yours.<br />&#8203;<br />And so may a slow<br />wind work these words<br />of love around you,<br />an invisible cloak<br />to mind your life.</div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/img-1942_orig.jpeg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Wisdom Readings~New!!]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/wisdom-readingsnew]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/wisdom-readingsnew#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 23 Feb 2022 21:35:26 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/wisdom-readingsnew</guid><description><![CDATA[       When you are looking for deeper answers to questions you have about life, love, money, career or health it is time for a&nbsp;Wisdom Reading.This is a special and sacred process, a ceremony in honor of your future self.A&nbsp;Wisdom Reading&nbsp;is energy healing, divination, oracle, and cosmic soul attunment, all in one.Through the medium of intuition, oracle, tarot cards and clear energy magic, I open a gateway for the true essence of your soul as a being, to come through.&#8203;The inf [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/wisdom-reading_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">When you are looking for deeper answers to questions you have about life, love, money, career or health it is time for a&nbsp;<strong>Wisdom Reading.<br /></strong><br />This is a special and sacred process, a ceremony in honor of your future self.<br /><br />A&nbsp;<strong>Wisdom Reading&nbsp;</strong>is energy healing, divination, oracle, and cosmic soul attunment, all in one.<br /><br />Through the medium of intuition, oracle, tarot cards and clear energy magic, I open a gateway for the true essence of your soul as a being, to come through.<br />&#8203;<br />The information that comes through is life changing alchemy that you will return&nbsp;to again and again.<br /><br /><br />This new attunement in your consciousness helps reconnect, redirect and make alive the pathways to liberation, empowerment, and deep purpose, within you<br /><br /><br /><ul><li style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">Are you ready to receive more beauty, joy and understanding?</li><li style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">Are you ready to walk in such connected alignment that the misery of living lifts just for a moment?</li><li style="color:rgb(98, 98, 98)">Are you curious to see what mysterious and miraculous wonder life has in store for you?</li></ul><br /><br />Are you ready to level up your potential in life or career?<br /><br /><br />Book a Wisdom Reading today!<strong>&#8203;</strong></div>  <div style="text-align:left;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-small wsite-button-normal" href="https://www.larkfox.com/store/p2/Wisdom_Readings.html" target="_blank"> <span class="wsite-button-inner">Book Now</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Are you having trouble sleeping?]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/are-you-having-trouble-sleeping]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/are-you-having-trouble-sleeping#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 23 Feb 2022 17:39:49 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/are-you-having-trouble-sleeping</guid><description><![CDATA[       I was working with a client, the other day and she asked how to calm her anxiety before bed as she was having trouble sleeping.&#8203;I think most of us can relate to this.&nbsp;The spinning thoughts and body tension&nbsp;that can follow us into the sleeping hours.&nbsp;Sometimes we can be awoken by our minds in the middle of the night, and it will keep us up for hours.That&nbsp;tension, shallow breathing, worry, anxiety, fear, restlessness...these are all signs of a Nervous System on ove [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/we-will-know-peace-the-day-we-truly-know-ourselves-maxime-lagac_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">I was working with a client, the other day and she asked how to calm her anxiety before bed as she was having trouble sleeping.<br /><span style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)"><br />&#8203;I think most of us can relate to this.&nbsp;</span><strong style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">The spinning thoughts and body tension&nbsp;</strong><span style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">that can follow us into the sleeping hours.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">Sometimes we can be awoken by our minds in the middle of the night, and it will keep us up for hours.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">That&nbsp;</span><strong style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">tension, shallow breathing, worry, anxiety, fear, restlessness...these are all signs of a Nervous System on overdrive.</strong><br /><br /><strong style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">This feeling can come from current situations, past experiences, past traumas, future thinking and more (being human)!</strong><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">This is a common thing I work on with people when we are doing Energy Healing,&nbsp;</span><strong style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">we clear out stuff that often disrupts our inner peace</strong><span style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">&nbsp;such as other people's energy, outdated beliefs and disregulating energetic patterns, to name a few.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">There are many ways to help calm our nervous system, I think you will find the exercise below&nbsp;</span><strong style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">a helpful tool for your "increased enjoyment in life" toolbox.</strong></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong>As promised, here is a Quick Tip to help you regulate your Nervous System, to help you feel calmer, more hopeful and to help you sleep better.</strong><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">Dr. James Gordon in his book&nbsp;</span><u style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">The Transformation</u><span style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">, calls this technique "Soft Belly".</span><ul style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)"><li>From where you are right now, close your eyes and begin to breathe&nbsp;<strong>in&nbsp;</strong>through your&nbsp;<strong>nose</strong>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<strong>out</strong>&nbsp;through your&nbsp;<strong>mouth.&nbsp;</strong></li><li>Let your belly be soft and full and expansive.</li><li>Begin to let your body and mind relax.</li><li>Start at your feet and work your way up imagining all the muscles relaxing.</li><li>If your mind begins to wander, let them come and go and bring your mind back to the words "soft...belly.." or any other words that feel soothing.</li><li>Allow yourself 10-20 minutes.</li><li>When you are done let yourself come back to the room by opening your eyes</li></ul> Let me know if you try this and how it goes!<br /><span style="color:rgb(32, 32, 32)">In gratitude,<br /><br />Lark</span><br />&#8203;</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Portal opens for Mystery School 2022!]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/the-portal-opens-for-mystery-school-2022]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/the-portal-opens-for-mystery-school-2022#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 10 Jan 2022 21:36:34 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/the-portal-opens-for-mystery-school-2022</guid><description><![CDATA[       Mystery School is back in 2022!The portal opens and invites you to step across the threshold.&nbsp;We begin the Spring Session on&nbsp;Imbolc, February 1st!Spend the wheel of the year with us as we traverse through the&nbsp;sacred lands of seasonal celebrations, nature connection, deepening&nbsp;intuition,&nbsp;energy healing skills and more.We believe there is a remembering inside each of us that wants to be set free. Access to our wisdom and tools to navigate the seen and unseen worlds  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/folklore-and-fern_orig.gif" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><font size="6">Mystery School is back in 2022!</font></span><br /><span><br /><font size="5">The portal opens and invites you to step across the threshold.&nbsp;</font></span><br /><font size="5">We begin the Spring Session on&nbsp;<a href="https://folklore-and-fern-mystery-school.thinkific.com/courses/mystery-school-spring-session" target="_blank">Imbolc</a>, February 1st!</font><br /><br /><font size="5">Spend the wheel of the year with us as we traverse through the&nbsp;sacred lands of seasonal celebrations, nature connection, deepening&nbsp;intuition,&nbsp;energy healing skills and more.</font><br /><br /><font size="5"><span>We believe there is a remembering inside each of us that wants to be set free. Access to our wisdom and tools to navigate the seen and unseen worlds help us live richer, more connected and beautiful lives.&nbsp;</span><br /></font><br /><span><font size="5">Is this your year?</font></span><br /><br /><span><a href="https://folklore-and-fern-mystery-school.thinkific.com/courses/mystery-school-spring-session" target="_blank">For a free preview and to learn more click HERE</a></span><br />or<br /><a href="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/mystery-school.html" target="_blank">HERE</a><br /><br /><span><a href="https://folklore-and-fern-mystery-school.thinkific.com/courses/mystery-school-spring-session" target="_blank">Early Bird discount of $150 if&nbsp;you sign up by January 20th<br />for the Spring Session</a></span><br /><br />All lessons are online and self paced</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Winter Solstice Meditation]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/winter-solstice-meditation]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/winter-solstice-meditation#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2021 00:11:16 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/winter-solstice-meditation</guid><description><![CDATA[       As the Winter Solstice approaches and the darkest part of the year begins it's slow spiral back to the light...&#8203;We are tasked with going into that dark and hollow place that resides within the quiet of this season.We are invited to inhale and exhale as we embrace the dark part of the year and begin to feel the reemergence of light.I have made&nbsp;a very special Winter Solstice Meditation just for you!&nbsp;&#8203;Click the file below to download the&nbsp;meditation!    Winter Solst [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/solstice-quote_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font size="5">As the Winter Solstice approaches and the darkest part of the year begins it's slow spiral back to the light...<br />&#8203;</font><br /><span>We are tasked with going into that dark and hollow place that resides within the quiet of this season.<br /><br />We are invited to inhale and exhale as we embrace the dark part of the year and begin to feel the reemergence of light.<br /><br />I have made&nbsp;a very special Winter Solstice Meditation just for you!&nbsp;<br /><br />&#8203;Click the file below to download the&nbsp;</span>meditation!<br /></div>  <div><div style="margin: 10px 0 0 -10px"> <a title="Download file: Winter Solstice Mediation" href="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/winter_solstice_meditation.m4a"><img src="//www.weebly.com/weebly/images/file_icons/wav.png" width="36" height="36" style="float: left; position: relative; left: 0px; top: 0px; margin: 0 15px 15px 0; border: 0;" /></a><div style="float: left; text-align: left; position: relative;"><table style="font-size: 12px; font-family: tahoma; line-height: .9;"><tr><td colspan="2"><b> Winter Solstice Mediation</b></td></tr><tr style="display: none;"><td>File Size:  </td><td>26536 kb</td></tr><tr style="display: none;"><td>File Type:  </td><td> m4a</td></tr></table><a title="Download file: Winter Solstice Mediation" href="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/winter_solstice_meditation.m4a" style="font-weight: bold;">Download File</a></div> </div>  <hr style="clear: both; width: 100%; visibility: hidden"></hr></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is your house haunted?]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/is-your-house-haunted]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/is-your-house-haunted#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 27 Oct 2021 17:49:46 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/is-your-house-haunted</guid><description><![CDATA[       Do you believe in ghosts?When I was a kid, I lived in an old farmhouse in the middle of nowhere. There was a great big red barn behind the house and 100 year old cottonwood trees all over the property.All the homes in this area were separated by acres of land. The nights were bright with stars&nbsp;and the days filled with the sounds of insects and birds abuzz in the trees.Every year in the late fall, enormous orb weaver spiders would build webs that hung from the eaves over every window. [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/408410145.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:100%;max-width:800px" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong><font size="5">Do you believe in ghosts?</font></strong><br /><br />When I was a kid, I lived in an old farmhouse in the middle of nowhere. There was a great big red barn behind the house and 100 year old cottonwood trees all over the property.<br /><br />All the homes in this area were separated by acres of land. The nights were bright with stars&nbsp;and the days filled with the sounds of insects and birds abuzz in the trees.<br /><br />Every year in the late fall, enormous orb weaver spiders would build webs that hung from the eaves over every window.&nbsp;<br /><br />Our house was a ranch style home that had a basement.<br /><br />Part of it was finished and part of it was not.<br /><br />The unfinished part was windowless and filled with stuff:&nbsp;<br />old toys from childhood, my parent's year books, boxes of books, forgotten furniture, heirlooms and more.&nbsp;<br /><br />In the farthest back, right&nbsp;corner of that room was a door.&nbsp;</div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/basement_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">(not actual childhood basement)</div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">The door led to another windowless room.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">We kids, were afraid of this room.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">It was a confusing space with floor to ceiling shelves filled with dusty, forgotten things lit with flickering florescent lights.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">It smelled of dampness and cement. &nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">And just outside the entrance to this room was a doll in a rocking chair.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">She had green eyes that opened and closed. Her white nightgown was stained and yellowing and her arms and legs were worn and scuffed.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Her hair had been cut by a kid and stood straight up off her head.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">We hated this doll. We thought she was haunted.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">We would imagine that while we slept at night, her eyes would open and glow, into that very dark blackness.</span></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/doll_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">As teenagers, we thought it was 'fun' to go into the outer room and close the door and turn off the lights.<br /><br />The game was to see who could last the longest before getting scared.<br /><br />I can still remember how the darkness had a presence, that seemed to press in from all sides.<br /><br />It was so pitch black, you couldn't see anything. Not even your own hand in front of your face.<br /><br />The worst part was knowing that&nbsp;<em>doll was there, too.&nbsp;</em><br /><br />If someone felt really brave, they would go into the shelf room, but that almost never happened.</span><br />&#8203;</div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/dark_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Then, one night after we had played the "game", my friends and I were hanging out in the basement&nbsp;(in the finished part).<br /><br />We were talking and laughing and having a good time, when it was time for a snack refill.&nbsp;<br /><br />No one else was in the house at the time, just me and two other friends.<br /><br />Two of us went upstairs leaving Corey*, in the basement. ALONE.<br /><br />Amy and I were in the kitchen when Corey came running up to find us. He was flustered.<br /><br />"I just heard you calling me...."<br /><br />'We weren't calling you.'<br /><br />"No, I heard you calling to me....from that BACK ROOM, I thought you were playing a trick on me."<br /><br />"We have been up here the whole time."<br /><br />"I heard a voice, coming from the back room calling my name."<br /><br />"IT WASN'T US!"<br /><br />...<br /><br />Needless to say we did NOT go back into the basement that night.</span><br /><br />&#8203;</div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/ghost_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Over the years there were other things that happened like this. &nbsp;It was often subtle but there was definitely a&nbsp;<em>presence</em>&nbsp;in that house.<br /><br />I spoke to my Mom recently and she also acknowledged that she had experienced strange phenomena there.<br /><br />Now that I am an adult and my work is in the energetic realms, I encounter beings quite often in spaces.&nbsp;<br />Many of them are not necessarily 'ghosts' but some are!<br /><br />I have definitely done many clearings of spaces of energies that are not supposed to be there. &nbsp;<br /><br />When the energetic presence is a ghost, it is usually a being that has gotten stuck or lost and needs help getting where it needs to be.&nbsp;<br /><br />In general, they are not beings to be afraid of, they are just confused.<br /><br />In that case, we can imagine opening up divine light from above and connecting the ghost to that light.<br /><br />Many are quite happy to be on their way!<br /><br />What do you think, have you ever had a ghostly encounter?&nbsp;<br /><br />I would love to hear about it.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">________________________</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Still not loving old dolls,</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Lark</span></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Moving through Grief]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/moving-through-grief]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/moving-through-grief#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 Sep 2021 17:10:59 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.folkloreandfern.com/blog/moving-through-grief</guid><description><![CDATA[       No one wants to talk about grief.&nbsp;Do you?What comes up for you when you hear the word?Maybe you have even decided to skip reading this newsletter because you are thinking "this doesn't apply to me".Maybe&nbsp;you are thinking you don't&nbsp;want to read about grief right now because&nbsp;there is too much intensity going on in the world.But I would ask you, dear soul, how can we not talk about it? &nbsp;&#8203;      I don't need to name all the loss, the collective trauma we have all [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.folkloreandfern.com/uploads/5/7/7/6/57761229/no-one-ever-told-me-grief_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">No one wants to talk about grief.&nbsp;<font size="4">Do you?<br /><br />What comes up for you when you hear the word?</font><br /><br /><font size="4">Maybe you have even decided to skip reading this newsletter because you are thinking "this doesn't apply to me".</font><br /><br /><font size="4">Maybe&nbsp;you are thinking you don't&nbsp;want to read about grief right now because&nbsp;there is too much intensity going on in the world.</font><br /><br /><strong>But I would ask you, dear soul, how can we not talk about it? &nbsp;</strong>&#8203;<br /><span></span></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font size="4">I don't need to name all the loss, the collective trauma we have all been through these last couple years. Both personally and globally.&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><strong>What I am asking, is for&nbsp;you to expand your awareness&nbsp;and to simply find and name your grief.&nbsp;</strong><br /><br /><font size="4">Under what name, is it hiding within you?&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font size="4">Perhaps your fear&nbsp;or anxiety or overwhelm is masked grief? &nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font size="4">Your restlessness, your rage, your frustration?</font><br /><br /><font size="4">Your disillusionment, your addictions, your over spending, over eating, over consuming, over thinking...?</font><br /><br /><strong>Could these be your way of coping with the unnamed grief,&nbsp;swirling within you?</strong><br /><br /><font size="4">The origins of the word grief come from Latin, meaning-<em>heavy or grave</em>, and from&nbsp;the Old French, meaning-<em>burden or&nbsp;encumber.&nbsp;</em></font><br /><br /><font size="4">Is there anything within you that feels, heavy, encumbered, burdened? &nbsp;</font><br /><span></span><strong>This, is your grief.&nbsp;</strong><br /><span></span><br /><font size="4">Trying to suppress grief can prolong its process. Grief is its own animal and moves through us each in our own unique way. We need to give it time and permission to express and release.</font><br /><br /><font size="4">There is profound&nbsp;<strong>healing&nbsp;</strong>in being brokenhearted and in&nbsp;<strong>engaging</strong>&nbsp;in the grieving process.</font><br /><br /><font size="4">For one, it cracks us&nbsp;open, to let in new possibility.&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font size="4">For these troubled times, I would offer, that it is&nbsp;imperative to be&nbsp;whole AND broken at the same time.&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font size="4">To grieve, means allowing the release of the old and expanding your capacity, even within the uncertainty.&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font size="4">Let yourself be stretched.&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font size="4">Let's acknowledge our collective grief and&nbsp;let the world crack us open right now.</font><br /><br /><font size="4">Let's&nbsp;all, let loose a collective, keening wail to be heard across the planet.&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font size="4">May this sound reverberate at a healing vibration....let&nbsp;the sound and the acknowledgement of what it is- stir us to action, to awareness, possibility.&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><strong>Grieve like your life depends on it, like all of our lives do.&nbsp;</strong><br /><br /><font size="4">Because, if we give grief its proper place, its proper name, perhaps our confusion turns to wisdom and the brokenness turns to gold.&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font size="4">Perhaps something lightens and lifts off our weary hearts just a bit,&nbsp;guides us forward, through the pain, the difficulty and gives us the strength for that moment, to take one more step.&nbsp;</font><br /><br /><font size="4">Expressing our grief and allowing it to move&nbsp;through, making&nbsp;room for it, creates more space for joy, for presence, for awe, for beauty and also for doing the necessary and dirty work needed.</font><br /><br /><font size="4">If you name it, you can heal it and that may be our most important task of all time.&nbsp;</font><br /><span></span><strong><font size="4">The old coping mechanisms aren't working.<br /><br />Let's try this.</font></strong><br /><span></span><br /><strong>Let's do it together.&nbsp;</strong>&#8203;<br /><span></span></div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>